I’m Not Gay…Am I?
For many people who identify as gay, lesbian, queer or so on, when they were first discovering their sexuality there was a lot of doubt. Even though society is getting better by the year about...
View ArticleEmotions of Aftercare
There is a notion that aftercare is often about sweet reconnection. This is true and there are other methods as well. It may seem counter intuitive but some people want to be angry and/or left alone...
View ArticleThe Rule of Benedict: Insights for Power Exchange
It is my conviction that kink is grounded in all things real. Many things that we consider kinky today were commonplace yesterday: 1950s’ household speaks for itself, corporal punishment was practiced...
View ArticleA View From the Other Side
As this is our ‘freshman edition’ I thought I’d speak to one of my oldest friends, who is also my foot slave. In recent months he has been exploring other aspects of his kinky persona, in the form of...
View Article“Crime” and Punishment
My view of the word “punishment” has changed significantly through my journey into kink. The everyday, vanilla-esque definition is a negative reenforcement for negative behavior. Really, the entire...
View ArticleThe Gifts of Dominance and Submission
When I began my kinky journey, I had preconceived ideas about what “dominance” and “submission” meant. The only dominance I had experienced was the abusive, bullying kind, and relationships in which I...
View ArticleAdvice: How Do I Help My Partner Understand Why I Enjoy Submission?
In this video we answer a question about how to help a partner understand why you enjoy being submissive beyond sex. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins,...
View ArticleRule of St. Benedict: Counsel
The Rule continues with addressing the issues of consultative way of steering the Community. Chapter 3 is dedicated to the ins and outs of summoning the Community for counsel and giving the household...
View ArticleRule of Benedict Continues…
Chapter 4 of the Rule entitled Tools for Good Works showers the reader with Scripture quotes found in the Gospels and Pauline epistles. Those quotes intercepted with Benedict’s own insights fall into...
View ArticleAdvice: How do I consequence a submissive that has past trauma without...
In this video we discuss strategies for providing consequences to a submissive that has had trauma in their past. Submit your questions here or email us at advice@madisonkink.com Jay Blevins, LMFT...
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